Blue Lagoon is for relationship minded gay professionals who seek an easier and better way to create friendships and relationships.  Blue Lagoon is for gay men who want to avoid years of “trial and error” and who want a permanent solution to relationship frustrations.

Relationships exist in the domain of emotion and spirit.  Blue Lagoon is for gay men who want to meet emotionally available and spiritually curious men for thought provoking conversations and sharing during hikes in beautiful locations in the mountains of Colorado.

If you have lost the belief in good relationships or if you have given up on pursuing relationships, Blue Lagoon will open doors to a new and proven way of meeting and connecting with gay men.

Blue Lagoon is for gay men who have accepted their need for caring, respectful and loving relationships, and who are ready to learn and practice scientifically proven and psychologically healthy ways of building relationships for life.

You can expect a private and upscale experience for emotional and spiritual openness, guided by a relationship coach (Paul Angelo) with years of experience in the area of gay relationships and gay sexuality.

You can expect a space for respect, dignity and authenticity during the retreat. You are guaranteed to connect deeply to all participants and to plant seeds for life-long friendships and relationships.

You can expect to feel a relief of stress and tension associated with daily life in big cities, rush hours and emotional anxieties from lack of healthy relationships.

You can expect to feel protected from the sexual innuendos and party culture often present during LGBT pride parades, events and tours.

* Car Rental Fees
* Transportation To & From Events/Hikes
* Organic Food During Hikes
* Filtered Water During Hikes
* Access Fees To Parks
* Workshops

* Pickup & drop off at airport
* Sleeping Accommodations
* Food At Restaurant(s)
* Hiking shoes & clothes
* Hiking gear rentals if necessary

Paul has been coaching and training gay men since 2010. Paul Angelo is the founder of the Big Gay Family Social Program and the author of over 500 publicly available videos about gay relationships and gay sexuality.

Paul has been coaching gay professionals since 2010 in the areas of relationships and sexuality. Paul will be guiding the workshops and the ceremonies inside the Retreat. Paul Angelo MHA, MBA is the leader in the gay coaching industry.

With weekly new videos and innovative solutions for gay men, Paul’s vision is to create a new gay culture and a new infrastructure for friendships and relationships for gay men.

Society has changed quickly over the past 10 years. Technological innovation has not produced an improvement in the way gay men meet, connect and settle down. On the contrary – today, most gay men experience an acceleration of ambivalence, judgment and disrespect during dating.

Any gay man who is repetitively exposed to negative dating experiences can become numb and angry. In addition, anxieties about dating and breakups can build up to the point of creating a feeling of indifference about relationships in general. Some gay men say – “Why should I try if every time the relationship goes nowhere?”.

This cycle of negative experiences can be broken and every gay man can succeed in relationships, but first we need to understand the causes for the negative situations and then follow proven recipes for meeting, dating and connecting.

This is where the Adventure Club can help you. During the trips, you have the opportunity to share with others about your personal challenges and get everyone’s honest feedback. Group intelligence will help you see the invisible and help you understand how to self-correct.

During the evening, candle-lit workshops, you will also learn about powerful relationship frameworks that will save you years of frustrations and help you create the relationship you always wanted.

Other participants are gay men who are looking to go to the next level in their lives, especially in regards to personal relationships. T here comes a time for every man to choose the path of conscious and proactive effort towards relationships. Blue Lagoon Adventure Club creates a space where you can see your unconscious patterns and break through to the new way of being around men.

Ideal retreat participants are gay men who are looking for a more upscale and intellectually stimulating social experience. Blue Lagoon Adventure Club brings together men who are educated with a spark for adventure and interest in a healthy lifestyle. We guarantee an unforgettable experience in a beautiful location with amazing men.

To make the logistics simple, we ask that everyone takes care of accommodations on his own.  The meeting point for each day is the following address: 4500 S Monaco Street, Denver, 80237. Please find accommodations close by for your convenience.

Men who can go for a long walk in the city are able to participate during our retreat. Your fitness level should be moderate. During each hike, we take breaks and ensure we stick together as a group and we never leave anyone behind. Our hikes are relaxing, not competitive. All hikes are opportunities for longer conversations and personal reflection.

Most relationship challenges can be solved. Nature does not want men to struggle in relationships. But not everyone is ready for a healthy gay relationship.

Socially conditioned habits often stand in the way of connecting to other men. We are taught to seek the superficial and overlook the important. We are socially conditioned to objectify other men instead of seeking to get to know them.

Your transformation comes when you leave behind mediocre approaches and become ready to deal with human complexity that makes most gay men walk away. Instead of walking away, you engage the complexity and resolve the tension.

This is how you succeed in relationships for the rest of your life and we want the Blue Lagoon Adventure Club to give you the tools to face the challenges you might be avoiding to see and to go to the next level in your life.

Wounded people usually attract other wounded people. Continuous experience of bad relationships means the person hasn’t confronted the real issue.

Escaping the cycle of bad relationships begins with the discovery of the existential pain we try to cover up with relationships. This realization is often difficult to produce when we are stressed out, busy and frustrated with relationships.

The environment during our trips is ideal to give a person the time and space necessary to see and feel the deeper aspects of their personality and become aware of the effects of neglect and harshness in the past that may be contributing to ongoing relationship frustrations.

Big Gay Family Social Program offers monthly introductions, coaching and video training so that you can remove all obstacles to healthy relationships. Big Gay Family was founded by Paul Angelo in Miami in 2010 and has been updated every year to provide world-class service for all members.

If you cannot make it, you are missing out on the following:

– Beautiful moments in nature with amazing men.
– Social adventure in the mountains.
– Meeting new amazing men.
– Participation during intimate evening workshops.
– Healing your body, mind and soul.
– Resetting your emotional eating habits.
– Resetting your sleeping habits.
– Being around higher quality men.

Because of limited availability of tickets (only 8 spots), we offer a 7-day refund policy from the day of booking. We recommend that participants buy travel insurance in case of unexpected changes of plans.